Well there has been something really bothering me since yesterday. my closest friend has a child hood friend that i know pretty well. i wouldn't considering this guy a close friend but we know each other and are just good acquaintances.

He has a 4 year old girl who is a special needs kid. and since she was born, do to the extra care she needs, he changed is life to take care of her. He quit working to be her care provider full time. it hadn't been easy but put in a challenging position people can rise to the occasion. this winter i had ran into him and he had talked about his daughter having had to be in the hospital quite a bit this winter from pneumonia and infections. well the stress had finally taken a toll on his marriage and he was in the process of getting a divorce. he was still staying home with his daughter and would find away to manage. well Wednesday she passed away very unexpectedly.

In the last 4 years had never once complained about how hard it was to take care of her and had never curse the fact she was born with complications. he never looked at it as anything other than a blessing for being giving such a beautiful daughter. he loved her and was grateful for her.

Now he is absolutely and utterly devastated. there isn't anything worse that could have happened to him and is, obviously, taking this hard. as her life slowly slipped away from her, his has come to a screeching halt and will be never be the same.

i was crushed to hear this news and from the bottom of my heart my thoughts and prayers will go out to him. He is a good guy who became a great dad.